A calling for Churches to engage with caring for their parents, read an excerpt from It Takes a Church to Raise a Parent by Rachel Turner.

It takes a church

There is an old phrase: ‘It takes a village to raise a child.’ In several ways this saying is true. A village is committed to the flourishing of each child through the support it gives to those who are naturally a part of that child’s world. The child is first surrounded by the parents,

then embedded within an extended family, and ultimately embraced by the whole village community. The village doesn’t replace parents or the extended family. The village encircles and embraces parents and the extended family in order to best support the children. The

church needs to be that village if we are going to see parents flourish. In modern society, with the fracturing of family, the increased frequency of people moving house, and the breakdown of close-knit community, the church is needed more than ever. It is needed

to raise parents to embrace their role, and it is needed to restore the support surrounding a child and teenager so that parenting for faith can again flourish.

When a church does this well, something wonderful happens. I have seen it in churches up and down the UK and in communities all over the world. When a church embraces those surrounding and supporting a child and raises parents to flourish in parenting for faith, then good things begin to happen. We not only see children and teens run with God, but we also see adults filled with more encouragement and joy and extended families invested in each other more deliberately. We see church communities flourishing in their purpose, impacting their local community in outreach, and creating more opportunities for people of different ages to interact with each other. When a church changes, the lives of all those within its influence are impacted.

If we are going to see parents truly embracing their roles as the disciplers of their children, then we need to radically rethink our role as leaders in the church community.

We need to come to parents with a different heart – to see them freed to be all God has called them to be in the life of their child and to see their extended family and friends equipped to play their part – and with a commitment to be the church who will serve them,

invite them and their children to belong and participate, and create for them the best environment in which they can be equipped to flourish. We need to do this so that we all might see a generation of children, teens and young people raised to know and love the Lord.

What you will find in this book

If you are looking for ‘101 tips and activities for spiritually parenting’, then I’m afraid you will be disappointed. Since 2004 I have worked with thousands of parents and hundreds of churches, and I have found that every situation is unique. No formula will always work. No programme can be guaranteed.

What I hope to do in this book is to give you the values and skills you need in order to pioneer in your context; to help you think about the parents you serve; and to give you the foundations you need to be ready to inspire, encourage, equip and walk alongside your parents. The principles in this book have been refined through a lot of experience, tons of mistakes, gracious partnerships, and much trial and error. All stories in this book are real stories of real parents, churches and leaders.

I hope this book will embolden you to find the right path for the parents you serve, so that as we all step into our roles to disciple each other, the church can and will flourish.

It Takes a Church to Raise a Parent by Rachel Turner is available to order today.