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Created to help you invest in your most important relationships – with yourself, with others and ultimately with God.
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Meaning of Marriage
Facing the Complexities of Marriage with the Wisdom of God
In previous books respected New York pastor and bestselling author Timothy Keller has looked at such diverse and topical subjects as the existence of God, our need to do justice, the meaning of Jesus' life, and the human temptation to make idols - all through the twin lenses of a biblical framework and an engagement with contemporary culture.
In this new book, co-authored with his wife, Kathy, he turns his attention to that most complex of matters: our need for love, and its expression in marriage.
Beginning with the biblical narrative, and its pictures of marriage that span the original ideal to the broken to the redemptive, he looks at themes of friendship and commitment; the completion of men and women in each other; singleness, sex and divorce; and ministry and discipleship within the context of marriage.
This is a profound and engaging work that will challenge and inspire people in all stages of life - single, newlywed and married.
In previous books respected New York pastor and bestselling author Timothy Keller has looked at such diverse and topical subjects as the existence of God, our need to do justice, the meaning of Jesus' life, and the human temptation to make idols - all through the twin lenses of a biblical framework and an engagement with contemporary culture.
In this new book, co-authored with his wife, Kathy, he turns his attention to that most complex of matters: our need for love, and its expression in marriage.
Beginning with the biblical narrative, and its pictures of marriage that span the original ideal to the broken to the redemptive, he looks at themes of friendship and commitment; the completion of men and women in each other; singleness, sex and divorce; and ministry and discipleship within the context of marriage.
This is a profound and engaging work that will challenge and inspire people in all stages of life - single, newlywed and married.

The 5 Love Languages
The Secret to Love That Lasts
Falling in love is easy. Staying in love - that's the challenge!
How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands and conflicts and just plain boredom of everyday life?
In the #1 New York Times bestselling book The 5 Love Languages, you'll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman's proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner - starting today.
"If we learn to meet each other's deep emotional need to feel loved, and choose to do it, the love we share will be exciting beyond anything we've ever felt."-Gary Chapman
The 5 Love Languages is as practical as it is insightful. Updated to reflect the complexities of relationships in today's world, this new edition reveals intrinsic truths and applies relevant, actionable wisdom in ways that work. Practice the simple steps outlined in each chapter and you'll be on your way to a healthier, mutually beneficial relationship.
Also includes an updated version of The 5 Love Languages personal profile.
Falling in love is easy. Staying in love - that's the challenge!
How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands and conflicts and just plain boredom of everyday life?
In the #1 New York Times bestselling book The 5 Love Languages, you'll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman's proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner - starting today.
"If we learn to meet each other's deep emotional need to feel loved, and choose to do it, the love we share will be exciting beyond anything we've ever felt."-Gary Chapman
The 5 Love Languages is as practical as it is insightful. Updated to reflect the complexities of relationships in today's world, this new edition reveals intrinsic truths and applies relevant, actionable wisdom in ways that work. Practice the simple steps outlined in each chapter and you'll be on your way to a healthier, mutually beneficial relationship.
Also includes an updated version of The 5 Love Languages personal profile.

Marriage Book
New Revised Edition
Why should we get married? How do we stay married?
How do we resolve conflict?
What's the key to good sex?
Can we stay happily married to one person for the whole of our lives?
In this book, Nicky and Sila Lee distil the wisdom and advice they have gleaned from more than forty years of married life, and from their experiences of talking to and helping many other couples. While based on Christian principles for putting love at the centre of a marriage, Nicky and Sila's advice will benefit any couple regardless of their beliefs. They show how we can not only stay married, but make the most of our marriage, covering topics such as:
The Marriage Book provides practical advice for any married or engaged couple who want to build a strong and lasting marriage, while also offering insights for single people who are interested in gaining a realistic and hopeful view of marriage.
'While reading this book, you may feel that the Lees' marriage is 'too good to be true', but having observed it for over forty three years, let me assure you that it's entirely true and inspires us to aim for the very best.' Nicky Gumbel
Why should we get married? How do we stay married?
How do we resolve conflict?
What's the key to good sex?
Can we stay happily married to one person for the whole of our lives?
In this book, Nicky and Sila Lee distil the wisdom and advice they have gleaned from more than forty years of married life, and from their experiences of talking to and helping many other couples. While based on Christian principles for putting love at the centre of a marriage, Nicky and Sila's advice will benefit any couple regardless of their beliefs. They show how we can not only stay married, but make the most of our marriage, covering topics such as:
The Marriage Book provides practical advice for any married or engaged couple who want to build a strong and lasting marriage, while also offering insights for single people who are interested in gaining a realistic and hopeful view of marriage.
'While reading this book, you may feel that the Lees' marriage is 'too good to be true', but having observed it for over forty three years, let me assure you that it's entirely true and inspires us to aim for the very best.' Nicky Gumbel

Boundaries in Marriage
Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
Learn when to say yes and when to say no--to your spouse and to others--to make the most of your marriage
Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another.
Boundaries are the "property lines" that define and protect husbands and wives as individuals. Once they are in place, a good marriage can become better, and a less-than-satisfying one can even be saved.;Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, counselors and authors of the award-winning best-seller Boundaries, show couples how to apply the 10 laws of boundaries that can make a real difference in relationships.
They help husbands and wives understand the friction points or serious hurts and betrayals in their marriage--and move beyond them to the mutual care, respect, affirmation, and intimacy they both long for.
Boundaries in Marriage helps couples:
Learn when to say yes and when to say no--to your spouse and to others--to make the most of your marriage
Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another.
Boundaries are the "property lines" that define and protect husbands and wives as individuals. Once they are in place, a good marriage can become better, and a less-than-satisfying one can even be saved.;Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, counselors and authors of the award-winning best-seller Boundaries, show couples how to apply the 10 laws of boundaries that can make a real difference in relationships.
They help husbands and wives understand the friction points or serious hurts and betrayals in their marriage--and move beyond them to the mutual care, respect, affirmation, and intimacy they both long for.
Boundaries in Marriage helps couples:

Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
Real Help for Desperate Hearts in Difficult Marriages
What to do when you feel like giving upWhen you said, "I do," you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy.
You never intended it to be miserable.
Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. But the story doesn't have to end there. Dr Gary Chapman writes, "I believe that in every troubled marriage, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their marriage."
Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away, the revised and updated edition of the award-winning Desperate Marriages, teaches you how to:
An experienced marriage and family counsellor, Gary Chapman speaks to those whose spouse is any of the following:
Marriage has the same potential to be miserable as it does to be blissful. Read Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away to learn how you can turn things around.
What to do when you feel like giving upWhen you said, "I do," you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy.
You never intended it to be miserable.
Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. But the story doesn't have to end there. Dr Gary Chapman writes, "I believe that in every troubled marriage, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their marriage."
Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away, the revised and updated edition of the award-winning Desperate Marriages, teaches you how to:
An experienced marriage and family counsellor, Gary Chapman speaks to those whose spouse is any of the following:
Marriage has the same potential to be miserable as it does to be blissful. Read Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away to learn how you can turn things around.

Sixty Minute Marriage
Transform your relationship in one hour
Take an hour to read a book that will change your marriage forever!
Rob Parsons presents an action plan to revolutionise every relationship. Issues he faces and deals with include:
Everyone wants a wonderful marriage and 'The 60 Minute Marriage' lets you know that marriage is more than just romance - sometimes it's a fight to keep it alive. Rob Parsons gives insight into the root of the problems and recommends practical solutions such as sharing with your partner your past hurts, heartbreaks and disappointments. This simple act of open honesty, he says, will help you and your partner put things into context, promote understanding and start the healing.
Take an hour to read a book that will change your marriage forever!
Rob Parsons presents an action plan to revolutionise every relationship. Issues he faces and deals with include:
Everyone wants a wonderful marriage and 'The 60 Minute Marriage' lets you know that marriage is more than just romance - sometimes it's a fight to keep it alive. Rob Parsons gives insight into the root of the problems and recommends practical solutions such as sharing with your partner your past hurts, heartbreaks and disappointments. This simple act of open honesty, he says, will help you and your partner put things into context, promote understanding and start the healing.

When Marriage Meets Reality
An Everyday Toolkit for a Christ-Centred Marriage
When Marriage Meets Reality unpacks harmful beliefs about marriage, inviting you to release unrealistic expectations and fall in love with the marriage you have.
Have you found yourself asking “What is the missing link between what I thought marriage would be like and what it actually is? Are you trying to do the “Christian marriage” and it’s not working? You’re not alone. Marriage is beautiful, but inevitably hard. It is the coming together of two broken people, to create an imperfect harmony.
When Marriage Meets Reality, written by Dr. Tammy Smith, serves as a toolkit to help you fall back in love with your marriage. Contrary to what you might believe, the road to a better marriage is not found in turning your spouse’s heart toward your own hopes, dreams, and desires. Rather, the road to a better marriage is about turning your heart more toward Jesus. This journey will be a path of beauty from ashes, maturity through suffering, perseverance through trials, and life from death. Thankfully, at every turn, Christ equips couples with his power and perspective as a means of displaying his glory.
In When Marriage Meets Reality, Tammy diverts us from the trap of trying to change our spouses and challenges us to instead examine and discard our own assumptions and unhealthy expectations. She reminds us to fight from Christ’s victory as we engage in the spiritual battle by choosing to see a bigger picture, reject lies, and speak God’s truth. Filled with practical tools and a study guide for how to better express the power and love of Jesus, this book is written to equip you and serve as a forever resource for a healthy, thriving marriage!
Dr. Tammy Smith is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the states of Ohio and Texas, a National Certified Counselor, and holds a Ph.D. in Psychology. In When Marriage Meets Reality, she combines her more than 30 years of experience in this field with her three decades of marriage to Pastor Mike Smith to gently guide readers from a worldly view of marriage to one rooted in Christ.
When Marriage Meets Reality unpacks harmful beliefs about marriage, inviting you to release unrealistic expectations and fall in love with the marriage you have.
Have you found yourself asking “What is the missing link between what I thought marriage would be like and what it actually is? Are you trying to do the “Christian marriage” and it’s not working? You’re not alone. Marriage is beautiful, but inevitably hard. It is the coming together of two broken people, to create an imperfect harmony.
When Marriage Meets Reality, written by Dr. Tammy Smith, serves as a toolkit to help you fall back in love with your marriage. Contrary to what you might believe, the road to a better marriage is not found in turning your spouse’s heart toward your own hopes, dreams, and desires. Rather, the road to a better marriage is about turning your heart more toward Jesus. This journey will be a path of beauty from ashes, maturity through suffering, perseverance through trials, and life from death. Thankfully, at every turn, Christ equips couples with his power and perspective as a means of displaying his glory.
In When Marriage Meets Reality, Tammy diverts us from the trap of trying to change our spouses and challenges us to instead examine and discard our own assumptions and unhealthy expectations. She reminds us to fight from Christ’s victory as we engage in the spiritual battle by choosing to see a bigger picture, reject lies, and speak God’s truth. Filled with practical tools and a study guide for how to better express the power and love of Jesus, this book is written to equip you and serve as a forever resource for a healthy, thriving marriage!
Dr. Tammy Smith is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the states of Ohio and Texas, a National Certified Counselor, and holds a Ph.D. in Psychology. In When Marriage Meets Reality, she combines her more than 30 years of experience in this field with her three decades of marriage to Pastor Mike Smith to gently guide readers from a worldly view of marriage to one rooted in Christ.

Celebration of Sex
A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy
Revised and updated with additional up-to-date information, this informative and complete guide is the definitive intimacy resource for married Christian couples.
Dr. Douglas Rosenau is a licensed psychologist, and a Christian sex therapist who has for the past seventeen years used his training in theology and counseling to help Christian couples enrich and reclaim God's wonderful gift of sexuality within marriage.
A Celebration of Sex answers specific, often unasked questions about sexual topics, presents married couples with detailed techniques and behavioral skills for deepening sexual pleasure and intimate companionship, and is an excellent tool for premarital education.
Previous edition: 0785273662
Revised and updated with additional up-to-date information, this informative and complete guide is the definitive intimacy resource for married Christian couples.
Dr. Douglas Rosenau is a licensed psychologist, and a Christian sex therapist who has for the past seventeen years used his training in theology and counseling to help Christian couples enrich and reclaim God's wonderful gift of sexuality within marriage.
A Celebration of Sex answers specific, often unasked questions about sexual topics, presents married couples with detailed techniques and behavioral skills for deepening sexual pleasure and intimate companionship, and is an excellent tool for premarital education.
Previous edition: 0785273662

Parenting Book
The Alpha Course
Drawing on their own experience of bringing up four children, and having talked to thousands of parents over the years on their parenting courses, Nicky and Sila Lee bring fresh insights and time-tested values to the task of parenting. Full of valuable advice and practical tips, The Parenting Book is a tool to come back to again and again.
What the authors say: 'We believe that healthy families are at the heart of a functioning society. We developed our courses and wrote The Marriage Book and The Parenting Book because the church has the opportunity to offer support people at a practical, grass roots level. Every family strengthened makes a difference to a child and to our nation.'
21 chapters divided into the following sections:
Nicky and Sila Lee have been married for over 30 years and have a daughter and three sons. They are on the staff of Holy Trinity Brompton in London. They have spoken to thousands on the subjects of marriage, parenting and family life. They are the bestselling authors The Marriage Book and pioneers of The Marriage Course, The Marriage Preparation Course, The Parenting Course and The Parenting Teenagers Course.
Drawing on their own experience of bringing up four children, and having talked to thousands of parents over the years on their parenting courses, Nicky and Sila Lee bring fresh insights and time-tested values to the task of parenting. Full of valuable advice and practical tips, The Parenting Book is a tool to come back to again and again.
What the authors say: 'We believe that healthy families are at the heart of a functioning society. We developed our courses and wrote The Marriage Book and The Parenting Book because the church has the opportunity to offer support people at a practical, grass roots level. Every family strengthened makes a difference to a child and to our nation.'
21 chapters divided into the following sections:
Nicky and Sila Lee have been married for over 30 years and have a daughter and three sons. They are on the staff of Holy Trinity Brompton in London. They have spoken to thousands on the subjects of marriage, parenting and family life. They are the bestselling authors The Marriage Book and pioneers of The Marriage Course, The Marriage Preparation Course, The Parenting Course and The Parenting Teenagers Course.

Seasons of Sex and Intimacy

Confronting Porn
Confronting Porn is a biblical and practical approach to the issue of porn, offering hope and support for individuals struggling with porn and those who want to help them. In a new landscape where porn has never been more accessible, anonymous or potentially addictive, this book is a timely response for Christians seeking principles and proven steps towards freedom.
“The journey between addiction and freedom is a retracing of the miles walked away from our Father’s house. Every journey is different and it can take time to return home. Paula Hall’s years of experience means she has made this journey many times with many people. She knows the potential dangers and the bandits hiding places. She knows that there are times when the road gets steep and extra effort is needed. She knows that further down the wide and rushing river, there’s a bridge. In other words, this book has been written by someone who knows the way.” 177 pages, English, Naked Truth Resources
Confronting Porn is a biblical and practical approach to the issue of porn, offering hope and support for individuals struggling with porn and those who want to help them. In a new landscape where porn has never been more accessible, anonymous or potentially addictive, this book is a timely response for Christians seeking principles and proven steps towards freedom.
“The journey between addiction and freedom is a retracing of the miles walked away from our Father’s house. Every journey is different and it can take time to return home. Paula Hall’s years of experience means she has made this journey many times with many people. She knows the potential dangers and the bandits hiding places. She knows that there are times when the road gets steep and extra effort is needed. She knows that further down the wide and rushing river, there’s a bridge. In other words, this book has been written by someone who knows the way.” 177 pages, English, Naked Truth Resources

Loving Against the Odds
For every man and every woman in every marriage
Here is a book for all couples- those with strong marriages who want to protect their relationship, those going through difficult times, and those considering marriage.
With humour and honesty it deals with issues that are relevant to every marriage, including; communicating more effectively, over coming financial pressure, why interest in sex sometimes dies, the affair, and dealing with conflict.
For every man and every woman in every marriage
Here is a book for all couples- those with strong marriages who want to protect their relationship, those going through difficult times, and those considering marriage.
With humour and honesty it deals with issues that are relevant to every marriage, including; communicating more effectively, over coming financial pressure, why interest in sex sometimes dies, the affair, and dealing with conflict.

Anger
Taming a Powerful Emotion
Help for anger management -- from NYT bestselling author Gary Chapman
Getting angry is easy. Daily annoyances or mistakes poke at us. Then feelings of disappointment, hurt, rejection, or embarrassment begin to stir. And once our anger is aroused, that unwieldy cluster of emotions can make our thoughts and actions feel impossible to control.
Anger is a cruel master. If you struggle even a little with anger, you know how it feels to get mad too easily. To lash out at someone you love. To hold onto frustration. You might even notice others seem uneasy around you.
You know anger is hurting your life, but you don't know how to fix it.
There is hope. When you understand why you get angry and what to do about it, you can change the course of your life for the better. In Anger: Taming a Powerful Emotion, counselor Gary Chapman shares surprising insights about anger, its effect on relationships, and how to overcome it. His advice and real-life examples will help you:
Understand yourself better
Overcome shame, denial, and bitterness
Discern good anger from bad anger
Manage anger and conflict constructively
Make positive life changes
Let go of your grudges and resentment
Help others (like your children) deal with anger
and more
Whether your anger is quiet or explosive, if it's clouding your judgment and hurting your relationships, it needs to go. Learn to handle anger in healthy ways, starting today. Gary Chapman is wise and empathetic, and he'll help you turn over a new leaf.
Help for anger management -- from NYT bestselling author Gary Chapman
Getting angry is easy. Daily annoyances or mistakes poke at us. Then feelings of disappointment, hurt, rejection, or embarrassment begin to stir. And once our anger is aroused, that unwieldy cluster of emotions can make our thoughts and actions feel impossible to control.
Anger is a cruel master. If you struggle even a little with anger, you know how it feels to get mad too easily. To lash out at someone you love. To hold onto frustration. You might even notice others seem uneasy around you.
You know anger is hurting your life, but you don't know how to fix it.
There is hope. When you understand why you get angry and what to do about it, you can change the course of your life for the better. In Anger: Taming a Powerful Emotion, counselor Gary Chapman shares surprising insights about anger, its effect on relationships, and how to overcome it. His advice and real-life examples will help you:
Understand yourself better
Overcome shame, denial, and bitterness
Discern good anger from bad anger
Manage anger and conflict constructively
Make positive life changes
Let go of your grudges and resentment
Help others (like your children) deal with anger
and more
Whether your anger is quiet or explosive, if it's clouding your judgment and hurting your relationships, it needs to go. Learn to handle anger in healthy ways, starting today. Gary Chapman is wise and empathetic, and he'll help you turn over a new leaf.

Hold Me Tight
Developed by Dr Sue Johnson over 20 years ago and practised all over the world, EFT has been heralded by Time magazine and the New York Times as the couple therapy with the highest rate of success. Couples who use EFT see a 75 per cent success rate. The therapy programme focuses on the emotional connection of every relationship by de-escalating conflict, creating a safe emotional connection, and strengthening bonds between partners.
In HOLD ME TIGHT, EFT pioneer Dr Sue Johnson presents her highly effective therapy model to the general public for the first time. Through case studies from her practice, illuminating advice and practical exercises, couples will learn how to nurture their relationships and ensure a lifetime of love.
Developed by Dr Sue Johnson over 20 years ago and practised all over the world, EFT has been heralded by Time magazine and the New York Times as the couple therapy with the highest rate of success. Couples who use EFT see a 75 per cent success rate. The therapy programme focuses on the emotional connection of every relationship by de-escalating conflict, creating a safe emotional connection, and strengthening bonds between partners.
In HOLD ME TIGHT, EFT pioneer Dr Sue Johnson presents her highly effective therapy model to the general public for the first time. Through case studies from her practice, illuminating advice and practical exercises, couples will learn how to nurture their relationships and ensure a lifetime of love.

For Women Only Rev Ed
What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men

Created for Connection
The "Hold Me Tight" Guide for Christian Couples

Rules of Engagement
How to plan a successful wedding & how to build a marriage that lasts
Preparing for the wedding day requires a lot of hard work: booking the reception place, choosing the flowers, and a million and one other practical tasks.
But spending some time preparing for married life itself is even more important. This short, user-friendly manual is designed to encourage engaged couples to discuss their views and expectations of what marriage is all about, and to come to a better understanding of each other's way of seeing things.
It also looks at key issues - including attitudes to money, work, having children, relationships with the in-laws - and helps couples to begin to work through some of these issues in advance of the big day, to identify potential areas of tension and to set in place good principles for their married life together.
Preparing for the wedding day requires a lot of hard work: booking the reception place, choosing the flowers, and a million and one other practical tasks.
But spending some time preparing for married life itself is even more important. This short, user-friendly manual is designed to encourage engaged couples to discuss their views and expectations of what marriage is all about, and to come to a better understanding of each other's way of seeing things.
It also looks at key issues - including attitudes to money, work, having children, relationships with the in-laws - and helps couples to begin to work through some of these issues in advance of the big day, to identify potential areas of tension and to set in place good principles for their married life together.

For Men Only Rev Ed
A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women
If you're like most men, you've burned up lots of energy trying to figure out just what makes a woman tick and how you can make her happy. Don't keep guessing. In For Men Only, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn reveal the eye-opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love.
Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy.
If you're like most men, you've burned up lots of energy trying to figure out just what makes a woman tick and how you can make her happy. Don't keep guessing. In For Men Only, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn reveal the eye-opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love.
Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy.

Sixty-minute Debt Buster
An Hour to Transform Your Finances