Much has been written about how men in modern culture have lost their way. Masculinity has become toxic and far too common on many levels. Anger, rage, and violence rule too many lives and ruin too many homes. What has happened to men? They were created to be leaders and should be models for their families and communities. This behavior is life gone bad from the start. Men tend to parent their children the same way they were parented. But there is hope for positive and permanent change. Offered here is a pathway to lead men away from the behavioral stupor that binds them. This process will help them see where they fall short. It can help define a new goal to become the mature men God created them to be. In addition, everyone leaves some kind of legacy after they are gone, but the question is whether that is the way one wants to be remembered. "Silent strength" is positive power under control, and readers will be challenged to develop a model of legacy for those who follow after they are gone.