It is time we go back and see what went wrong in order not to make the same mistakes our parents made.

This book allows parents to know them self better and looks at different reasons hitting a child is not healthy; the damages caused, inside is also practical tools to discipline young minds backed with Psychotherapy researches and Christian morals.

"IT TAKES A VILLAGE" but "IT STARTS WITH THE MAN IN THE MIRROR"

It is from a psychotherapist window to enlighten other parents to allow all to raise resilient children, who are not raised on fear and adrenaline but love and empathy.

The author draws from her African heritage to show Africans original ways from their proverbs is to care and respect children, not belittle or hit them.

She highlights the biblical side to look at what Abraham God thinks of punishing children.

The book is suitable for all parents, grandparents, carers and anyone looking after children or about to