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Number One at Being Number Two: How to Lead When You're Not in Charge

  • 130 pages
  • Publisher: Trilogy Christian Publishing, Inc.
  • 14 x 21.6 x 0.8 cm

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For the unsung heroes who lead from behind

Shows you how to serve with grace and excellence

Helps you find true purpose outside of the spotlight

A candid guide for those who serve faithfully behind the scenes and wonder if their contribution matters.

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Have you ever felt like the unsung hero, the steady hand behind the curtain, the quiet force that keeps everything running, yet rarely receives the applause?

In Number One at Being Number Two, Monica J. Wilkinson, an accomplished Project Manager and Executive Assistant, opens up about what it means to serve faithfully from the background. With candor, grace, and insight, she explores the emotional and spiritual tension of being the go-to person in someone else's story, while quietly longing to understand her own.

For years, Monica mastered the art of managing chaos, supporting leaders, and keeping organizations stable, all while wrestling with feelings of invisibility and questions about her identity. Was her worth tied to her title? Could she find purpose outside of recognition? Was there more to her story than being a vital support to someone else's journey?

This compelling memoir is more than just one woman's story-it's a deeply relatable narrative for anyone who's ever held it all together without fanfare, who's played a supporting role in their workplace, family, or community, and who has wondered if that role is enough.

Through vulnerable storytelling and powerful reflections, Monica invites readers to reimagine what success looks like, not as a spotlight, but as a steady flame. She challenges the cultural obsession with being "first" and celebrates the strength, intelligence, and leadership it takes to be second...to lead from behind, to support without ego, and to find deep fulfillment in often-overlooked spaces.

Number One at Being Number Two is an anthem for assistants, administrators, planners, producers, and every quiet powerhouse who has ever wondered if they matter. It's for the woman who holds everyone together, the man behind the mission, the soul who shows up every day without applause, because that's what strength looks like.

  • Title

    Number One at Being Number Two: How to Lead When You're Not in Charge

  • Author

    Monica Wilkinson

  • Publisher

    Trilogy Christian Publishing, Inc.

  • Published

    August 2026

  • Weight

    159g

  • Page Count

    130

  • Dimensions

    14 x 21.6 x 0.8 cm

  • ISBN

    9798898356330

  • ISBN-10

    8898356331

  • Eden Code

    7595343