"You're still single?" The one question that almost every single person hates to be asked. Mainly because it causes us to face unresolved feeling and emotions. And because we know that almost everyone has a story about being single or advice about being single, that they will feel compelled to share. I hope the life lessons I have learned during my single journey will help you see that question a little differently. How we behave as single Christians is simply a matter of perception. If you view this as a dreaded time, everything you do will reflect that thought pattern. If you view it as a preparation time, you will spend this time developing yourself. I have made so many decision, so many mistakes all based on my perception of what it meant to be single. I pray you are blessed by the contents of this book. I pray that it helps you live a better, fulfilled life because you are embracing your singleness and not running from it. And as a result you can boldly answer that dreaded question with confidence, "Yes I am single "