Understand the 5 parenting styles and discover the secret to overcoming the most common parent obstacles - with any child. Most parenting books don't help parents assess parents' own issues adversely affecting their parenting. This is why tools, tips and formulas don't often work. How We Love Our Kids targets the hidden relational challenges that animate parents' behavior and can lead to enormously challenging behavorial patterns in their children. By looking at how parents were parented and the impact that training has on their philosophy and style, readers will see how each of the 5 parenting styles create predictable patterns and accompanying challenges - as well as immediately achievable solutions.