While God created us equal, most Christian married couples do not succeed because everyone wants to be an equal. Married couples have devised their marriages on equality. They have forgotten the Word of God, thereby forgetting what role they play. Are you equal in love and romance? Are you the man wanting to be the woman or are you the woman wanting to be the man. God has given us His word for our guide. God's word makes us accountable for the truth and for being who we are as husbands and as wives. We are to seek God for the betterment of our lives.