This book was inspired by the Holy Spirit. So many are fighting to serve God in their own way. We may find that we are afraid to share our love for God because of the person we are married to may not accept God or God is not wanted as a part of their life. Many people may find themselves in a marriage where their mate becomes a dictator, a mental abuser, or a tormentor. This book is to guide people through their trials. To inform them no matter how large, or small God alone has the power, the spirit, and the wisdom to teach them how to stand in any overwhelming situation. This book is to make people realize that their human wisdom alone is often not enough to stand in their situation. This book will let the reader know they will need greater wisdom and a deeper understanding of what they are going through. This book is centered around the wisdom, knowledge, and the discernment of God. This book will let the reader know regardless of their human freedom to do or think as they like that no matter what they still need God to help them to make wise decisions, to give them peace and assurance in their decisions. This book will let people know even though we make our own decisions we still need the intervention of God in our decisions and in our situations.