Emotions can build or break relationships.

With over 20 years of experience in helping couples form lasting connection, Ted Lowe provides an invaluable guide on emotions.

For couples in crisis, coasting, or thriving and ready for greater depth.

How do two people with different personalities, histories, and emotional wiring build something that lasts? After working with thousands of couples, Ted found that the biggest roadblock to healthy, lasting relationships is our emotions—often we don’t know what to do with what we feel. Emotions get tangled, shut down, or explode in ways that create distance instead of connection. We get caught in emotional loops.

Feeling Good About Us . . . Until We Start Fighting in the Car helps couples reframe emotions from something that can break a marriage to something that can make it stronger. Ted walks readers through a step-by-step approach that’s both practical and hopeful. Drawing on neuroscience, Scripture, and decades of ministry experience, he shows how unprocessed emotions often drive our worst moments—and how slowing down to understand and share those emotions can transform the way we relate.

With humor, humility, and wisdom, Ted helps us:

• Assess mixed messages about emotions
• Identify ineffective strategies we all use
• Embrace emotions for deeper connections
• Learn and know our spouse
• Cultivate humility and avoid selfishness
• Understand and take action with core emotions like anger, fear, and joy

Together with Ted you can turn emotions from conflict to connection. Feeling Good About Us . . . Until We Start Fighting in the Car is an essential resource for all couples who desire to build long-lasting, time-tested, love and understanding.