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Delulu Ain't Divine: Why You Keep Choosing Wrong -and How to Date Better as a Christian Woman: Breaking Free from Fantasy-Based Faith and Counterfeit

  • 256 pages
  • Publisher: ALTAR•ED BY GOSPEL & GRIT PRESS
  • 14 x 21.6 x 1.5 cm

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THIS AIN'T YOUR GRANDMAMA'S DATING BOOK.

You've prayed. You've fasted. You've journaled for that "kingdom spouse." But somehow, you keep circling to counterfeits, situationships, or dusty disciples. Maybe it's because you've been watching love through a Disney+ lens - fairytales, not reality.

Sounds about right?

If you're tired of choosing wrong and ready to date better as a Christian woman-this book is for you.

This isn't your sugar-coated, pink-and-purple "Proverbs 31" workbook. Delulu Ain't Divine: Breaking Free From Fantasy-Based Faith and Counterfeit Love is a prophetic wake-up call for readers tired of Christian aesthetic and ready for the real assignment.

With raw storytelling and unapologetic clarity, this book rips the mask off lies draining your peace - idolized relationships, mistaking vibes for vision, worshipping fake covenants , and baptizing toxic cycles as "God's will." It's time to shut down the delusion and see love - not in shades of fiction - but for what it really is.

Inside these pages, you'll discover:

  • Why quoting epistles on a first date won't save you - and how to actually connect without glitching like a dial-up modem.
  • Why 500k and a beard ain't the blueprint - if he can't cover you spiritually, the salary won't cover the real gaps.
  • The roster problem - you're praying for God's son, but your bench is stuffed with hobby men and placeholders.
  • The tantrum prayers - begging God for a husband... while ignoring the fact He's already told you to drop the delusion.
  • Why Proverbs 31 aesthetics won't keep you - and why covenant always trumps the costume.

If you've ever turned a red flag into a prayer request, this is your moment to break the cycle.

This isn't about getting a man.

It's about getting your mind back.

  • Title

    Delulu Ain't Divine: Why You Keep Choosing Wrong -and How to Date Better as a Christian Woman: Breaking Free from Fantasy-Based Faith and Counterfeit

  • Author

    Nancy Verdule

  • Publisher

    ALTAR•ED BY GOSPEL & GRIT PRESS

  • Published

    January 2026

  • Weight

    305g

  • Page Count

    256

  • Dimensions

    14 x 21.6 x 1.5 cm

  • ISBN

    9798218930585

  • ISBN-10

    8218930582

  • Eden Code

    7552463