Quality matters! Joy matters! And quality and joy are the result of good decisions. We don't have control over how people treat us or how events impact us. We do have control over the access they have to our spirits. Write and follow a constitution for yourself and make decisions based on your constitution, not your intuition. Write your constitution to help you remember you how to care for yourself. Intuition is a gut reaction. Intuition is often a result of habits that we have developed over time. If you have a failure, use the Choice Cycle to improve your Next Time. It has taken me a lifetime of failures to learn that I have resources and can control who has access to me. We can learn to trust our sources of love. I know and I want you to know how to make decisions to be experience a life of joy.