You're stuck at 25 mph in the fast lane while everyone else speeds past.

You're functionally present but mentally absent, replaying what they did over and over.

You tell yourself you just can't forgive that.

But here's what nobody tells you: You're paying a price every single day while the person who hurt you has moved on with their life.

This book isn't going to tell you that what happened to you was okay. It wasn't. It's not going to tell you that you should trust people who've proven themselves untrustworthy. You shouldn't.

What this book will show you is how to reclaim your life without staying imprisoned by what someone else did to you.

Forgiveness isn't about them. It's about you.

It's about getting your life back.

Words from readers"The principles in this book didn't just teach me about forgiveness-they reopened the door to communication with my sister and changed my life, and my family's."

- Jenny, Papillion, Nebraska

"I have read a lot of books about boundaries, and anger, and forgiveness but I never read a book that connected those three in a way that makes incredible sense. If you read this book with a highlighter, you're gonna have highlights on every page. One of my favorite quotes from the book is, "There's a difference between anger that protects and motivates you, and anger that imprisons and exhausts you." Chapter 4 is the best stuff I've ever read on boundaries."

- Pastor Roger Graber

__About the Author__Keith West knows what it's like to be stuck in anger-not just from observing and helping others, but from his own difficult journey through hurt and forgiveness. After walking through his own process of healing, he's spent fifteen years studying forgiveness and sitting with hundreds of people who said, "I just can't forgive that"-and then watched them discover they could.

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