When the voice of God started cutting through the noise in my life, it wasn't during a sermon or a conference - it was in the middle of designing, driving through traffic, in the everyday places where I thought I was in control. He spoke to me through visuals, through real life, because that's the language I understood.

Mid-sex - yes, mid-sin because it was outside of marriage - the love of God pierced straight through my heart. Suddenly weeping; I could barely speak, but what soon came out was, "I don't belong here." From that moment, I've been devoted to Jesus. But even greater than that, He's always been devoted to you and I - to our devotion to Him.

The Red Flag Is Me is a 140-day interactive devotional that invites readers into the raw, honest, and healing practice of self-reflection-without falling into self-hate, shame, or sabotage. Through powerful storytelling, biblical revelation, and real-life moments with God, Destiny Wesley confronts the red flags we often point outward-only to discover they first start within.

Each day offers readers a fresh opportunity to slow down, look inward, and rise up with clarity and courage. Whether you're a woman navigating career transitions, spiritual burnout, emotional wounds, or simply wondering how to show up whole in a broken world, this book is a holy mirror to return to the One who never stopped seeing you.

This is not just a devotional. It's a call to internal maturity, spiritual authority, and daily surrender.