When your life doesn't unfold in the way you expect - especially when that expectation is bound up with faith in a good God - you start to ask some questions. Like 'Why?' and 'When, God?' or 'How long until...?'

But these questions are not the right ones. Because when you're trying to come to terms with your current single status, it's not about 'why' or 'when' or 'how long'. It's about 'what' and 'who'.