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Single-Minded

Being Single, Whole and Living Life to the Full

by Kate Wharton

Average rating of5.0from (1)reviews

North West Vicar & New Wine speaker Kate Wharton tackles the subject of singleness with honesty and a biblical perspective

    • Author

      Kate Wharton

    • Book Format

      Paperback

    • Publisher

      Lion Hudson

    • Published

      June 2013

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    Vicar and New Wine speaker, Kate Wharton, encourages those who face the challenge if single life within the church.

    The ‘couples culture’ is everywhere: church family events, valentine’s day, cinema, popular music and even supermarket offers. Being single can often mean you are singled-out. But Kate wants to encourage Christians, holding singleness up as a unique opportunity for holiness, personal development and Christian living.

    In her book, Kate tackles the common challenges many face when reconciling their relational choices:
    • Issues of Identity: church roles, social invitations and being whole without an ‘other half’
    • Finance: learning to live alone when it’s cheaper to live with others
    • Sexual Pressure: staying pure, in thinking as well as action
    • Friendship: how to be ‘just friends’ with the opposite sex
    • Calling: when the cost of obedience is to stay single
    • Divorce or Bereavement: learning to be single again

    “When we are sold out for God,” she says, “then life will be the very best that it can be – whether married or single, with children or without – because we will be on our way to becoming who we were created to be.”

    About the Author

    Kate is Vicar of St. George’s Church in Everton, Liverpool. Before ordination she worked as a Speech & Language Therapist and then as a Church Pastoral Assistant. She enjoys travelling, playing badminton, watching football, and going out with friends. She is a regular speaker at New Wine. She has been single for 33 years!

    We live in a couples culture, where a partner, if not a spouse, is assumed; where the expectation is that unmarried people will be sexually active even if not in a committed relationship. But what about those who because of their faith, or their preferences, choose to remain celibate until they find Mr or Miss Right?

    Kate Wharton tackles directly and compassionately the questions that this choice throws up: issues of identity (church roles and social invitations alike too often assume 'a couple'); finance (it is much cheaper to live together than alone); sexual pressure (staying pure, in thought as well as deed); friendship (including being friends with the opposite sex) and calling (the cost of obedience may preclude marriage). What challenges face those who, through divorce or death, are single again?

    This positive, honest book will be a source of wisdom and comfort to anyone who is single, whether or not they expect to remain so.

    Specification

    • Author

      Kate Wharton

    • Book Format

      Paperback

    • Publisher

      Lion Hudson

    • Published

      June 2013

    • Edition

      1st New edition

    • Weight

      196g

    • Page Count

      192

    • Dimensions

      129 x 199 x 11 mm

    • ISBN

      9780857214300

    • ISBN-10

      0857214306

    • Eden Code

      4066886

    More Information

    • Author/Creator: Kate Wharton

    • ISBN: 9780857214300

    • Publisher: Lion Hudson

    • Release Date: June 2013

    • Weight: 196g

    • Dimensions: 129 x 199 x 11 mm

    • Eden Code: 4066886


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    10 years ago

    Positive, affirming and refreshingly honest

    Kate, an evangelical vicar in her mid-thirties, writes with refreshing candour and clarity on the spiritual, sexual, emotional and cultural pressures facing Christian singles. Not only do we face pressures from a secular culture that doesn't understand or else openly despises our biblical view of sex, but we can also encounter unhelpful attitudes from within the Church. (Certainly, in my experience, evangelical churches seem to assume that their singles are magically asexual.) Kate tackles some of these unhelpful cliches and attitudes, and also encourages Christian singletons to dialogue honestly with their married friends about the kind of counsel that can be unhelpful, even hurtful. She also encourages a two-way dialogue: sometimes singles can have unhelpful assumptions about marriage. She has a whole chapter on being 'single again', i.e. after divorce or bereavement. Whatever the reasons for one's singleness - and the reasons vary greatly - and whether you carry painful emotional/sexual baggage (or not), this is a clear, practical and highly affirming book. Kate encourages us all, whatever our marital status, to live positive, Christ-centred, Christ-honouring lives. And she never once mentions that most tedious of evangelical cliches, the so-called 'gift of singleness'. God bless you for that, Kate. ;) And thanks for a great book!

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